Will everything be all right?

Everyone says "Don`t worry it will get better?"
It never does, it always seems to get worse.
Just when you think its better, someone stomps on you happiness.
Why do we strive soo much for validation?
How come being loved is soo important?
I want to be loved like I love, completely and unconditionally!
Maybe thats too much?
Its hard to love someone that doesn`t love you back.
Its tragic to want to spend the rest of your life with someone and they don`t feel the same wa